Unfair Fighting (Revised SPR 06)

Unfair Fighting (Revised SPR 06) - inconsistent 3. Demand...

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Fighting I. Types A. Substantive B. Procedural C. Affective
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Fighting II. Unfair Fighting A. Exploitative 1. Hitting below the belt 2. Morality 3. Blaming the other for something they can’t control 4. Comparisons
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Fighting 5. Indirect fighting 6. Overemotional 7. Physical abuse 8. Hit and run
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Fighting B. Psyching the Person Out 1. Mind reading 2. Character Analysis 3. Prediction Making
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Fighting C. Conversational Techniques 1. Monologue 2. Silence 3. Constant Interruptions 4. Switching a. Topics b. Levels
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Fighting D. Extremities 1. Overkill 2. Never forget/never forgive 3. Unrealistic Threats 4. Irrelevant weapons
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Fighting E. Crazy-Making 1. Deny obvious feelings 2. Being intentionally
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Unformatted text preview: inconsistent 3. Demand something, get it, then deny you ever wanted it 4. Agree to something, then deny you ever discussed it Fighting 5. Build up hopes, then shatter them 6. Follow the letter of the law, not the spirit of the law 7. Psychologize 8. Never stop 9. Ignore/Disconfirm F. Be face sensitive a. The importance of face b. Core face concerns c. Individual face concerns d. Stepping on face 1. Seethe inside 2. Resist 3. Lash out e. How to avoid stepping on face 1. Figure out peoples face concerns- observation- complaining 2. Communicate in non-face threatening ways...
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Unfair Fighting (Revised SPR 06) - inconsistent 3. Demand...

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