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Unformatted text preview: Imeshment and fusion when losing urself and completely going into other person Burn the empathetic bridge need to do this to hurt/kill killers lack empathy, they usu not crazy one way to gauge capacity of love gauge how empathetic they are attachment indirect way of looking at love part of way to love child is to discipline, and how discipline the 4 cs of discipline Clear about what can/cant do + consequences Consistently enforce the rule Consequence for breaking it. Kid needs to know in advance. Need to apply it Natural consequences are best. If wet bed, make him clean Caring do in a caring context. Focus on teaching, not punishing Never suppress kids feelings. Ways loved as child influence love relationships later in life...
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This note was uploaded on 09/27/2008 for the course PSYCH 101 taught by Professor Brill during the Fall '07 term at Rutgers.
- Fall '07