Unformatted text preview: Imeshment and fusion – when losing urself and completely going into other person “Burn the empathetic bridge” – need to do this to hurt/kill killers lack empathy, they usu not crazy one way to gauge capacity of love – gauge how empathetic they are attachment – indirect way of looking at love part of way to love child is to discipline, and how discipline the 4 c’s of discipline Clear about what can/can’t do + consequences Consistently enforce the rule Consequence for breaking it. Kid needs to know in advance. Need to apply it Natural consequences are best. If wet bed, make him clean Caring – do in a caring context. Focus on teaching, not punishing Never suppress kids’ feelings. Ways loved as child influence love relationships later in life...
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- Fall '07
- Psychology, tobe Tone, emotional connection Empathy