Unfair_Fighting_(Revised_for_fall09)[1]

Unfair_Fighting_(Revised_for_fall09)[1] - B. Psyching the...

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Fighting I. Types A. Substantive B. Procedural C. Affective
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0.00% 1.00% 2.00% 3.00% 4.00% 5.00% 6.00% 7.00% 8.00% 9.00% 10.00% Children Sex Housework Money Leisure Alcohol Women Men p Reasons Why Men and Women Argue in Marriage Source: Psychosomatic Medicine, July 2007
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Fighting II. Unfair Fighting A. Exploitative 1. Hitting below the belt 2. Morality 3. Blaming the other for something they can’t control 4. Comparisons
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Fighting 5. Indirect fighting 6. Overemotional 7. Hit and run 8. Violence
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U.S. Texas Total 9.9 10.2 Girls 8.8 10.5 Boys 11.0 10.0 Source: CDC, Austin A-S, 9/19/08 Dating Violence in 2007 Percent of ninth to twelfth graders who experienced dating violence: Dating violence is defined as hitting, slapping, or purposively hurting one’s dating partner
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Fighting
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Unformatted text preview: B. Psyching the Person Out 1. Mind reading 2. Character Analysis 3. Prediction Making Fighting C. Conversational Techniques 1. Monologue 2. Silence 3. Constant Interruptions 4. Switching a. Topics b. Levels Fighting D. Extremities 1. Overkill 2. Never forget/never forgive 3. Unrealistic Threats 4. Irrelevant weapons Fighting E. Crazy-Making 1. Deny obvious feelings 2. Being intentionally inconsistent 3. Demand something, get it, then deny you ever wanted it 4. Agree to something, then deny you ever discussed it Fighting 5. Build up hopes, then shatter them 6. Follow the letter of the law, not the spirit of the law 7. Psychologize 8. Never stop 9. Ignore/Disconfirm...
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This note was uploaded on 08/29/2010 for the course CMS 07005 taught by Professor Daly during the Spring '08 term at University of Texas at Austin.

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