***SUCCESS STORY*** "Dude, I've bought your book, and read your newsletters faithfully. Your
a !*&%ing genius. I've been studying psychology for years and have a degree in it and your perceptive
nature and knowledge of females is amazing. You've totally changed the way I look at women and
dating them. All of a sudden I feel like a have more control over myself and more confidence in my
interactions with women. I used to be the nice, sweet guy who everyone loved to be friends with, not
realizing I have all the qualities going for me. A deep resonant voice (many women have told me I
have a very sexy voice), musican who writes songs that make women weep (no lies), attractive,
intelligent, etc etc. I never knew how to present all these qualities into a appealing package, but you
my wonderful friend and shown me a new side of behaving that has opened up doors for me.
.. I know
the more I read your book over and over and interalize your techinques I will have no problem. Thank
you for your knowledge and insight you've changed my life!!! A."
>MY COMMENTS: DUDE, I've
had more than one psychology studet/practitioner write with similar comments. The psychology of
ATTRACTION is unique, illogical, and for the most part a mystery to the masses. Keep up the great
work, and I'm glad you enjoyed the book.
***QUESTION*** "I am a 18 and a visually very attractive
guy, but I am equally very shy. When a girl comes over and talks to one of my friends I can't bring
myself to join in the conversation, even when there is a perfect opportunity. I also cant go over and talk
to a girl if she is alone. I just don't have any sort of confidence in winning the girl, even though I know
that I'm goodlooking!.
>MY COMMENTS: If I were you, I would figure out how to practice more
in other situations. Start making more jokes when you're in line at the store, get on AOL and go into
some chat rooms, etc. Take baby steps, a little more every day until you build up the confidence.
What you're talking about is often related to a fear of rejection, etc. Learn how to not care what other
people think of you. I mean, does it really matter if a girl responds to your advances? Just realize that
you're the only one who can change this for you.
.. so get out and do it!
"David, Skeptical at first but not anymore! I got your book last week and started reading it. I had this
first date with this woman. We had a drink and then went to a restaurant. Following your
recommendation, I didn't call for several days. Then I invited her over to have dinner. I purposely did
not have the dinner ready.
..I said "I am sorry but I am running late and dinner isn't ready yet" . Would
you mind helping me?". She agreed. My strategy was to have her stand in the kitchen so I can come
behind her and smell her neck, shoulder, and hair. MAN, YOU ARE SO RIGHT! She loved it! After
couple time, she turned around and tried to kiss me. Before reading your book, I would have kissed her
and made a pass at her but, NO, I acted like I am not that interested to her. During the evening, I stayed