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Interpersonal Communication in your Relationship

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Interpersonal communication1 Interpersonal Communication in your Relationship Christy Fobert COM 200 Instructor Youngs 6/22/11
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Interpersonal communication2 Dear Jason and Amber, I am writing in response to your request asking for some advice on interpersonal communication in your relationship. As you know my husband and I have been attending classes that help with communication in relationships. We also believe we can give you some dire advice based on our own personal experience since we have six years behind us. Being a newly engaged couple and asking for advice before marriage lets us know you are both serious in committing to one another. This also makes it seem you are both committed to keeping your relationship alive and well. The best advice I can give you is to keep your communication alive and well. In this letter I will give you some advice on the concepts of good interpersonal communication. I will explain what we have been learning in our classes and also what I can explain to how we have experienced this in our relationship. The first basic but important skill to communication is listening. Listening to each other shows that you both respect one another and care about what the other is saying. There are three important types of listening and they are: active, critical, and empathetic. The first skill that we will discuss pertaining to the listening is actively listening. Active listening is assertive communication that develops a sense of trust. In my personal relationship letting your spouse know that you are listening lets them feel important and build trust within your relationship. Actively listening in your communication will allow you to build trust because of the openness that it builds. Openness within active listening makes your spouse feel a connection which leads to building trust among the two of you. Based on the interpersonal communication texts actively listening has four advantages which are: real communication, understanding, intimacy/trust, and appreciation of each other. These listening advantages create a stronger bond between the both of you as well as creating self confidence in your relationship. Real communication allows you both
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Interpersonal communication3 to feel important and knowledgeable in the communication part of your relationship. With the understanding it allows you to interpret the feelings of one another. The fact of intimacy/trust of listening allows you both to be compassionate with each other while having an openness of trusting relations. All these will lead to you both being able to create an appreciation for each other’s feelings and communication. Critical listening is very important because it allows you to analyze, understand, and draw a conclusion to what your spouse is saying. This is important to our communication within our relationship because it allows us to interpret what they are communication or trying to get across to us. Critical listening in my own relationship has helped me to analyze what my spouse was saying and draw a conclusion to what I was going to respond with. Critical listening and
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