{[ promptMessage ]}

Bookmark it

{[ promptMessage ]}

Ch 6 part 4 - • Spirals – Type of self-fulfilling...

Info iconThis preview shows pages 1–16. Sign up to view the full content.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
Click to edit Master subtitle style 8/31/11
Background image of page 1

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
8/31/11 Types of tensions Autonomy-togetherness Interdependence Issue with 27% of men and 44% of women
Background image of page 2
8/31/11 Types of tensions Novelty-predictability Issue with 19% of men and 3% of women
Background image of page 3

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
8/31/11 Resolutions Dialectical emphasis Ignore Pseudo-synthesis Break laws of physics Reaffirmation Accept roles and movement along dimensions
Background image of page 4
8/31/11 Avoiding dysfunctional patterns When relationships attack! Dominance/Power Complimentary Clear #1 person Can be problem
Background image of page 5

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
8/31/11 Avoiding dysfunctional patterns When relationships attack! Dominance/Power Symmetrical Competitive: fight for control Submissive: fight for bottom
Background image of page 6
8/31/11 Avoiding dysfunctional patterns When relationships attack! Disconfirmations Rejecting responses; influence self
Background image of page 7

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
8/31/11
Background image of page 8
8/31/11 Paradoxes “Go to Vegas, I like feeling lonely” Double bind 2 incongruent messages that can’t be resolved
Background image of page 9

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
8/31/11
Background image of page 10
Background image of page 11

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
Background image of page 12
Background image of page 13

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
Background image of page 14
Background image of page 15

Info iconThis preview has intentionally blurred sections. Sign up to view the full version.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon
Background image of page 16
This is the end of the preview. Sign up to access the rest of the document.

Unformatted text preview: • Spirals – Type of self-fulfilling prophecy – Progressive • Increasing trust and commitment – Regressive • Damaging thoughts and behaviors 8/31/11 • Cognitive interdependence – I vs. We – Related to commitment 8/31/11 • Effective self-disclosure – Sharing personal info • Borderline TMI – Not “Here’s a secret: my mom thinks you are a loser” 8/31/11 • Effective self-disclosure – Not for all relationships • Can be risky • Places burden on recipient • Time and place • Gradual • Reciprocal 8/31/11 • Deception – “Dinner was great.” vs. “Are you sure this was chicken?” – 80% deceive partner in last 2 weeks – Don’t look for deception cues – Truth bias 8/31/11 • Jealousy – Perceived threat to a relationship • Could be due to insecurity 8/31/11 • Emotional v. sexual infidelity – Males: sexual – Females: emotional...
View Full Document

{[ snackBarMessage ]}

Page1 / 16

Ch 6 part 4 - • Spirals – Type of self-fulfilling...

This preview shows document pages 1 - 16. Sign up to view the full document.

View Full Document Right Arrow Icon bookmark
Ask a homework question - tutors are online