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Unformatted text preview: We love young children because their selfishness, their curiosity, their "real" nature, is shown
to us in their every word and act. In their presence we are relaxed, off our guard and not forced to that eternal
hiding and studying that the society of our equals imposes on us.
We all long for sincerity, but the too sincere are treated much as the skeptic of Bjoriasen's tale, who was killed
by his friends. As they stood around his body, one said to the other, "There lies one who kicked us around like
a football." The dead man spoke, "Ah, yes, but I always kicked you to the goal." The sincere of purpose must
always keep his sincerity from wounding too deeply; he must always be careful and include his own foibles
and failings in his attack, and he must make his efforts witty, so that he may have the help of laughter. But
here the danger is that he will be listed as a pleasant comedian, and his serious purpose will be balked by his
Sincerity, thus, is relative, and the insincere are those whose purposes, declared by themselves to be altruistic,
are none the less egoistic, whose attachments and affections, loudly protested, are not lasting and never
intense, and whose manners do not reflect what they themselves are but what they think will be pleasing and
acceptable to others. The relatively sincere seek to make their outer behavior conform, within the possibilities,
to their inner natures; they are polite but not gushing, devoted to their friends at heart and in deed, but not too
friendly to their enemies or to those they dislike, and they believe in their own purposes as good. The
unhappiest state possible is when one starts to question the sincerity and validity of one's own purposes, from
which there results an agonizing paralysis of purpose. The sincere inspire with faith and cooperation, if there
is a unity of interest, but it must not be forgotten that others are inspired to hatred and rivalry, if the sincerity
is along antagonistic lines. We are apt to forget that sincerity,...
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This note was uploaded on 09/26/2011 for the course PSYCHOLOGY 110 taught by Professor Kannan during the Spring '11 term at Anna University Chennai - Regional Office, Coimbatore.
- Spring '11