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because she piques them, and women often set out to "win" the reserved "woman hater" for the same reason.
Thus tenderness and sex passion, with sadism and masochism in lesser degree, are basic in sex feeling, but
other qualities enter so largely that any complete analysis is almost impossible. The belief, engendered by
romance and teaching, that happiness lies in love, spurs youth on. Admiration for achievement, love of
beauty, desire for the social standing that winning some one gives, desire for home and perhaps even for
children are some of the factors of love.
Sex passion varies enormously in people. In some men it is an almost constant desire, obsessive, and is
relatively uncritical and unchoosing. Occasionally, though much more rarely, the same condition is found in
women. Such abnormal individuals are almost certain of social disaster, and when married their conduct
usually leads to divorce or desertion. Then there is a wide range of types down to the almost sexless
persons, the frigid, who are much more commonly found among women than men. In fact, with many CHAPTER XIV. 119 women active sex desire may never occur, and for others it is a rarity, while still others find themselves
definitely desirous only after pregnancy. Not only are women less passionate, but their desire is more
"finicky," more in need of appropriate circumstances, the proper setting and the chosen mate than with man.
In other words, sex desire is more physical and urgent in the man and more psychical and selective in the
 Some claim that the "frigid" woman is such because her mate is ignorant of the art of love. This is true of
some frigid women. Instruction to men and women about to be married on the technique of sexual life might
well take a fine place in the curriculum of life.
A curious by-product of the sexual feeling is fetichism. To do it justice, fetichism is found in all feeling
toward others, but is most developed in sex relation. The fetich is a symbol of the desired person, thus the
handkerchief and glove of the woman...
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