Unformatted text preview: very well. The more extreme and unexpected the event has to be in order to trigger passion (buying flowers, cleaning the house. . not everyday shit). o Passion cannot be planned-SPONTANEOUS! Kelly just shows up at his door and says “lets go do some unplanned shit!” lets go fold clothes at the Laundromat o Within long-term relationships, you’ll feel more passion toward others than toward your partner (sexy waitress shows up: your wife isn’t lookin so good anymore. .) best way to kill the crush is to get to know the person you have a crush on. More often than not it will scare you away. Expect this shit to happen o It will never be the “same as it was” so expect and enjoy the “warm afterglow”. Things wont be as hot as when you first meet/ be intimate with someone • Anger: o Lady yells/cheers too loud: Kelly calls her out. Anger comes into play. Could lead to violence. Continued on next lecture...
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- Spring '10
- Communications, Interpersonal relationship, Feeling