Lecture 4 - Lecture 4: Relational Development I....

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Lecture 4: Relational Development I. Introduction a. Identity is Necessary to Meet Needs for: i. Inclusion ii. Control iii. Affection b. Balanced “I”, “Me” is essential c. Identity- Goals and Values – Linguistic Code – Relationship d. What Kind of Relationships do you want? II. Need to Connect: Develop Relationships a. Definition of Relationship i. A social bong of intimacy ii. Created through the exchange of messages carrying relational info iii. Three kinds of communication: 1. Cultural: ethnicity, age, gender 2. Social: Group membership 3. Interpersonal unique person info b. Types of Relational Messages i. Psychological Distance: Liking messages ii. Social Distance: Formality/Informality iii. Role Distance: Power and Role c. Example : What the hell are you doing? i. Negative affect ii. Highly informal iii. Intense and controlling boss/parent d. Types of Interpersonal Goals i. Self presentation goals: communicating our images to others ii. Relational goals: communicating our feelings and roles to others
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