Unformatted text preview: Built in self-controls excess I Zones norm of I Experimentation Deprivation If zones are too narrow, always correcting. Family as a whole does correcting, not just one person. e.g. go to church – norm. Skip Wed. night or Sun. night or Sunday School. If skip more than 1, family creates feeling of shame (excessive amount of time for self) If must go every night of revival, family makes parent feel bitter & angry (deprivation of their time) System works as a whole to bring a balance (homeostasis) – keeping of norm. Norms can change but continual deviation one way or other – gradually go to church more or less often. To avoid change, may use third approach. 3. Morphogenetic – family system creates new ways of responding to achieve goals of family. If cybernetic does not work, or if New situation (Requires flexibility)...
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- Fall '10
- Parent, Sibling, Cybernetics, Norm Wright