CMST 1061


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CMST 1061 FINAL EXAM I. RELATIONSHIPS A. Factors: 1. Number of people (dyad, triad…) 2. Purpose a. Task: b. Social: feel included 3. Duration a. Short term b. Long term 4. Levels of Intimacy a. How much support? i. Casual: minimal support (acquaintance) ii. In between: moderate (colleague) iii. Intimate: really being yourself with that person B. Relation Expectations A. Prototypes: 1. Label (friendship? Acquaintance?) 2. Criteria 3. Behavior (behavior to meet the criteria) C. Relational Definition A. Overall sense of who we are to one another B. How we classify the relationship we are in 1. Example: summer boyfriend/girlfriend D. Relational Culture A. Simply the atmosphere of a relationship B. Common behaviors, shared scripts and habits E. Relational Contract A. Rules that develop in a relationship B. Explicit or Implied 1. Example: chore chart v. knocking on the door F. Social Exchange Theory A. Rewards - Costs = Profit (relationships and their worth) G. Others A. We adapt our behavior in order to present an image (persona) to these people A. Social Groups 1. Groups we choose to be a part of 2. Rules of behavior B. Socialization 1. Primary- culture, language, values 2. Secondary- teaches how to be a member of a group II. Conflict -Struggle when 2 people cannot agree on a way to meet their needs
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1. Pseudo-conflict a. False conflict (Example: meeting at the union- you are on the 3 rd floor and your friend is on the 1 st ) 2. Simple Conflict a. Disagree about what actions to take i. Example: vacation destinations 3. Ego Conflict a. Damage self-esteem; person feels attacked B. Causes: 1. Goals to be personal 2. Allocation of resources a. So much time, so much space, money, etc. b. How to distribute 3. Decisions you make 4. Inappropriate behaviors 5. Individual Differences 6. Rivalry 7. Different relational definitions a. Want more than a just relationship in the summer C. Communication Approaches to Conflict: 1. Non-assertive- not getting involved; not worth it to you a. Don’t stand up for yourself or your needs 2. Aggressive- dominate others; your way or highway 3. Assertive- stand up for your right without hurting others D. DESC Script 1. Plan out your message a. Describe- describe behavior that is upsetting you b. Explain- explain how it makes you feel c. Specify- specify what you want that person to do d. Consequences- consequences that they will face 2. Example: Going to the movies with someone who tells you the ending E. Individual Approach Conflict 1. Avoidance- choose to NOT be involved 2. Accommodation- give in; amiable; want harmony 3. Competitive- want to win; want to be right 4. Compromise- give and take to both sides 5. Collaboration- both try to discuss the problem (needs of both sides) F. Why does conflict matter? 1.
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This note was uploaded on 01/16/2012 for the course CMST 1061 taught by Professor Hebert during the Fall '08 term at LSU.

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