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The Coffee Date Mister Seductor
CONTENTS CHAPTER ONE The Right Mindset for the Job Evocation ........ 1 The Purpose of This Book ...... 6 What Vour Role Is ..... 7 Time to deprogram ....... 9 CHAPTER TWO The Essential Checklist The Five Commandments….. 15 The Tool Kit ............... 20 Weapons Training ...... 21 The First Phone Call…… 32
CHAPTER THREE The Secrets of Her Face Eye of the Beholder….. 42 Scent of a Woman .... 43 Sweet Nothings ...... 45 Smooth Talker….. 46 I Can Use Somebody….. 48 CHAPTER FOUR If You Leave Me Now Goodbye My Lover .... 50 The smooth Criminal ...... 51 The Correct Apology….. 52 The Next Phone Call….. 53 Reflections…… 54
The Right Mindset For the Job EVOCATION As I sat there at the table I could feel that my opportunity to ever be with this woman again was diminishing by the moment. What made it worse was that I knew all of the laborious and courageous groundwork I had put in to even arrive at this juncture in the courtship, was going to waste. There I sat stupefied across the table from this beautiful woman not knowing how to re-establish the connection she had so obviously felt when she had agreed to meet me for coffee. In the harsh light of day with no social atmosphere to assist the mood, I could intuitively feel her levels of attraction towards me were dissolving faster than the sugar cubes in my coffee. The organic connection that we had shared a couple of nights ago had now become awkward and was withering into obscurity with even sip she took. As the Chapter 1
meaningless small talk continued, time and my chances of ever seeing her again slipped away. She always had other plans after that coffee date...I never did see her again... A seed of anguish had been planted. It has long been fertilized with regret, confusion, and a longing to understand the social dynamic concepts that govern the connection that exists between the sexes. This longing matured into a deep understanding, which has now grown into mastery... THE PURPOSE OF THIS BOOK The coffee date is the most crucial social interaction you will have with a woman. On this date she will determine whether she will ever see you again or go on a second date with you. Most courtships hang in the balance depending on the result of the coffee date. Simply put, if you get the coffee date right, she will see you again. And if you get it wrong, she won't. You might spend days or even weeks interacting with a woman before she gives you her number, but you can blow your chances totally and permanently in under twenty minutes, if you don't get this date right. Even if you've managed to get a girls number in under ten minutes, you'll still have to go through the coffee date trial before things can go any further. Women generally need to spend around eight hours with a man before they are comfortable becoming intimate with him. Most men fail to realise how to correctly utilise these eight hours. A lot of men attempt to skip the short coffee date. These men usually try to take a girl out to the movies or out for dinner on their first date with the girl. These men usually never get to see the girl again. They fail to use the secrets of time fractioning. They fail to lay the correct ground work first. They fail

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