Unformatted text preview: ity and sovereign power, by referring to a love is never directed toward this or that property of the loved one (being blond, being small, being tender,
being lame), but neither does it neglect the properties in favor of an insipid generality (universal love): The lover wants the loved
one with all of its predicates, its being such as it is. "28 It is this "being-such" that is always hidden when we consider
relations of belonging to this or that property or class. In other words, when we think of an individual as defined by this
particular identity or that, as black or white, male or female, Muslim or Christian, what is denied or hidden is this
being-such with all of its predicates. What happens in friendship and love that alters the tendency (and sometimes the imperative) to simplify and essentialize the identity categories to which we belong? In
friendship we cease to see the other as white or as black, as gay or straight, able or disabled, female or male. At least, we
are aware of these particular identifying categories of a companion, but exist in relation with him or her in a state
of "forgetfulness" of, or &quo...
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