Only about 4.3% of the labor force makes minimum wage or less, and about
20% of the workforce plugs away for $9 or less
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Barbara Ehrenreich
, sociologist and writer,
did her own study where she had to live
off of $9 a day and traveled the country working for $6 or $7 as a waitress and still
could not afford to live off of her wages
Faced with either welfare or low-wage work, single mothers find that the
government’s definition of responsibility is narrowly defined as wage work
By forcing welfare moms to enter the workforce while not providing adequate child
care, the government encourages women to abandon their children in an unsupervised
home
To manage this tension between being a good worker or a good mother, single
mothers may shoot for the nearly impossible strategy of self-reliance, but in reality
they often ending up depending on cash assistance from family or boyfriends
The Pecking Order: Inequality Starts at Home
The home (no matter who makes up a family) is a haven of equality, altruism, and
infinite love in an otherwise harsh world
In
Haven in a Heartless World
,
Christopher Lasch
paints a rosy portrait of domestic
life
o
To him, the home really is a haven where workers seek refuge from the cold
winds of a capitalist public space
o
The family is sacred because it provides intimate privacy, managed by a
caring woman who shields male workers from “the cruel world of politics and
work”
o
This idea of the family as insulated from the outside world is deeply
entrenched in America
Such ideas give a misleading sense of the family as a harmonious unit, its member
altruistically sacrificing for one another to forge a healthy, hearty, and loving private
world
In the book
The Pecking Order
(2004), the premise is that in each American family,
there exists a pecking order among siblings, a status hierarchy, if you will—that can
ignite the family with competition, struggle, and resentment
In explaining economic inequality in America, sibling differences represent more than
half of all differences between individuals
Birth position matters only in the context of larger families and limited resources
The children born first or last into a large family seems to fare better
socioeconomically than those born in the middle
o
Middle kids feel the effects of a shrinking pie, as they tend to be shortchanged
on the resources like money for college and potential attention
The family is, in short, no shelter from the cold winds of capitalism; rather, it is part
and parcel of that system
When families have limited resources, the success of one sibling often generates a
negative backlash among the others
o
As the parents unwittingly pull all their eggs—all their hopes and dreams—in
just one basket, the other siblings inevitably are left out in the cold
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The Future of Families, and There Goes the Nation!


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