Moreover adopted children possess mixed feelings in that they may learn on ways

Moreover adopted children possess mixed feelings in

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Moreover, adopted children possess mixed feelings in that they may learn on ways to love their adoptive parents but find it challenging to cope with thoughts of being abandoned by their biological parents. Therefore, in the above-mentioned case, they have a lot of thoughts that disturb them such as question on why they are adopted, question on why they were abandoned by the mothers who gave birth to them, if they were wrong, among other questions. If such thoughts keep ringing in their mind, they might demand explanation from their adoptive parents. Worryingly, if they find it hard to ask, they might decide to keep them in their mind that would result in depression.
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A CASE STUDY: ADOPTION 9 Depression affects the adopted child memory (Wiley, & Baden, 2015). According to an extensive literature conducted to examine diagnostic, behavioral, and demographic nature of adopted child, several plausible explanations emerged that explain their high rate of behavior problems. The adopted children feel different from their adoptive families; they struggle to cope with thoughts of rejection, loss, embarrassment, and shame over their adoption. Importantly, despite having these questions, they do not cause problems in the environment they are such as at school or within their new families. In addition, these children fantasize about their parents’ physical appearance such as what they do or did for a living, and if they miss their children. Events such as holidays, birthdays, and other important children’s events often draw their memories of the past. Interestingly, these emotional challenges keep on coming and can lead to withdrawal or depression. In other special cases, the thoughts can get severe and calls for necessary intervention such as treatment and counseling (Wiley, & Baden, 2015). Therefore, adoptive parent must show patience to the child and more often engage in communication with the child. They should create a sense of belonging to these children and help them deal with these psychological challenges. Economic Perception of Adoption Although adoption is not a child market or a market for parental rights, adoptive parents have to pay the parent to whom the child that suits them belongs. The payments are made based on a judgmental perspective of the social worker or the family (Wiley, & Baden, 2015). There are several markets for adopting children. These markets are based on the traits of the child being adopted. In most cases, the adopting agencies that either is private or public promises to give the child to a family that matches his or her skin, race and most importantly those families with common interests.
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A CASE STUDY: ADOPTION 10 Adoption is beneficial to all stakeholders economically including the society. According to Wiley and Baden (2015), adoption reduces the fiscal burden to the birth mother or even the foster home. It also improves the general outcome of society such as improving the quality of education. Through adoption, behavior problems are reduced by ensuring that all children access education and are under the hands of responsible parents (Wiley, & Baden, 2015). Moreover, there are positive externalities such as fuel-efficient cars as well as educational programs that benefit from adoption. In addition, the birth mother benefits economically as cost that would
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