Finally keep this thought in mind as we shared in my

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Finally, keep this thought in mind… As we shared in my other book, High on Sextasy , one of the key ingredients of great sex is variety . In order to keep sex interesting and fun, the what, the how, the when, and the where have to keep changing. You don’t have to change all those things all the time. Just one of them will work. The easiest thing to do is, change the ‘where.’ Keep sex out of the bedroom, as often as possible…and explore every other room, floor, tabletop and wall in the entire house. Then, move on to the garage, the car, and even the backyard, if you feel up for it.
ZenGasms by Derek Rake © 2008 Derek Rake Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Page 63 The great thing is, it's almost impossible to have sex in exactly the same way as you did the last time. I share a lot of the “what, how, when, and where” in that manual so I won’t repeat that info here. xrhombus
ZenGasms by Derek Rake © 2008 Derek Rake Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Page 64 Chapter 7. The ZenGasms Toolbox t's helpful to know which types of orgasms there are, and how to bring each one about. Clitoral ZenGasm: The most commonly experienced type is, of course, the clitoral orgasm. Most women are only familiar with this type of orgasm and have never experienced any other type. The clitoral orgasm is pretty straight forward. Get a woman's body and mind aroused, using the strategies shared earlier. Then, start with indirect clitoral stimulation, i.e. stimulation of the clitoral hood. As she gets more aroused and wet, her clitoris will increase in size, become redder and more visible - as more blood flows to it. At this point, you can stimulate it directly, still using gentle pressure, but a faster pace. Never apply too much direct pressure unless she asks for it. Immediately after she has an orgasm (or in some cases, midway through it,) her clitoris will become extremely sensitive and you will need to stop applying direct pressure. Some women will simply clamp their legs shut in order to keep your hands from moving any longer. Others may just say, " stop, stop, stop ," until you stop stimulating her clitoris, or they'll push your hand away physically. All of the above is perfectly normal, and is actually a good thing. Vaginal ZenGasm : Very few women are able to have an orgasm through penetration alone. In fact, many women have never had an orgasm in this way. For most of the women who have never experienced a vaginal orgasm, it's still pleasurable (and comforting) for them to feel a penis inside them, including the 'in and out' motion. I
ZenGasms by Derek Rake © 2008 Derek Rake Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Page 65 Most guys think that the only way to bring a woman to orgasm is through penetration. And when it doesn't work, they try using pills or other enhancers so they can keep going for longer periods of time.

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