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Chapter 7. The
t's helpful to know which types of orgasms there are, and how to bring each one
The most commonly experienced type is, of course, the clitoral
orgasm. Most women are only familiar with this type of orgasm and have never
experienced any other type.
The clitoral orgasm is pretty straight forward. Get a woman's body and mind aroused,
using the strategies shared earlier. Then, start with indirect clitoral stimulation, i.e.
stimulation of the clitoral hood.
As she gets more aroused and wet, her clitoris will increase in size, become redder and
more visible - as more blood flows to it. At this point, you can stimulate it directly, still
using gentle pressure, but a faster pace.
Never apply too much direct pressure
unless she asks for it.
Immediately after she has an orgasm (or in some cases, midway through it,) her clitoris
will become extremely sensitive and you will need to stop applying direct pressure.
Some women will simply clamp their legs shut in order to keep your hands from moving
any longer. Others may just say, "
stop, stop, stop
," until you stop stimulating her clitoris,
or they'll push your hand away physically.
All of the above is perfectly normal, and is actually a good thing.
: Very few women are able to have an orgasm through penetration
alone. In fact, many women have never had an orgasm in this way.
For most of the women who have never experienced a vaginal orgasm, it's still
pleasurable (and comforting) for them to feel a penis inside them, including the 'in and