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tissue and they know to hide a condom from the camera. Follow your intuition and best judgment and don't do what you think someone else would do because they are not you. It is your desires, feelings, and body that count, not someone else's. If you decide to go ahead, please read about anal sex. A good lubricant is necessary so there are no torn muscles or tissue damage. Also have your boyfriend use a condom. It can be a positive experience if you want to do it for your own reasons and if you are confident about protecting yourself. These traits are applicable to many different cases and require that people who exhibit these traits see a doctor or clinician. This may be problematical if their sexual fantasies or urges are against the law (Stoller, 1991). Such individuals may fear the legal repercussions and hide their behaviors to act out their urges. Some authorities believe that sex tourism that caters to pedophilia, for example, may be an example of evading detection in one's own society (Gagnon, 1997). Categories of Paraphilias Paraphilias can be divided into those that involve coercion and those that do not. Coercive paraphilias involve the use of force against another person. Noncoercive paraphilias are those that involve only one person or involve consent between adults to engage in a variety of practices that may involve pain, humiliation, pleasure, and other emotions. Coercive Paraphilias This category of paraphilias poses a risk to victims who may be unaware of what is going on or are unable to give consent to a sexual interaction. Voyeurism. The “peeping Tom,” as commonly described in popular culture and the media, is different from the paraphilia of voyeurism. Someone can engage in voyeurism as extreme sexual behavior for a variety of reasons, one of which may include being dared to do it. This behavior is not the same as someone who is diagnosed with voyeurism as a paraphilia. In fact, this practice may be more common than once thought, even though it is probably an ancient one (Bullough, 1995). The clinical condition of voyeurism, however, can cause those who practice it pain, humiliation, distress, and the possibility of being arrested. This paraphilia refers to the act of secretly watching someone undress or engage in some kind of intimate or sexual behavior. There are no reliable statistics, but this disorder may begin at around age 15 and is typically experienced by males (APA, 2000). Sometimes the voyeur appears to become more sexually aroused the more he believes that he is “stealing” the intimate privacy of the person he is watching. Web cams have made voyeurism much more widespread, and some of the pornography that appears on the Internet is advertised as being voyeuristic in selling it. Page 519 Exhibitionism. This paraphilia is the act of a person becoming sexually aroused by exposing his or her genitals to unsuspecting victims. “Flashers” typically are men in their mid-teens to middle age (APA, 2000; Kuzma & Black, 2008). The reactions of shock, stun, and surprise from the victim appears to create more sexual arousal in the exhibitionist. Research reveals that exhibitionists tend to engage in other types of

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