13) Ian suggests that men generally don’t consider the implications of the belief
system that ‘women exist purely for men to have sex with them.’ What are the
implications of this belief system? How does this idea inform “hook up
culture?” Rape culture? Sexism? Violence towards women in all forms?
Can we change this idea? If so, how?
14) Do you agree with Caroline Heldman that men are raised to not see women as
fully human? If so, why? If not, why not? What are some of the ways that men are
taught to devalue women? Boys to devalue girls? What are groups in society are
systemically devalued and dehumanized? How and why are they so and what
can/must we do to reform culture?
15) Michael Kimmel states, “The most important dicta of the bro code is you never
rat out the brotherhood.” What are some examples of ways that the bro code is
manifested? How does the bro code inform ethical decision making
on campus? How does it inform hook up culture? Rape culture? Hazing? For instance
I remember in my friend groups it was “chicks before dicks” but our guy friends
whom we were extremely close with said “bros before hoes.” I didn’t mind this “birds