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admitted at first, to be confused, grumpy, did not want to enjoy life or thought that her life would be forever miserable until, she took the decision one day to make think of life differently; and this decision turned out to be a crucial turning point in her life. At this moment, she remembers living better in her early thirties until now; she is glad to have taken that decision early before it was too late. This is an example I would love to follow when I face that stage also; to remember that life is not so bad, and that everyday given to me, where I have a chance to live is an opportunity to change my life for the better and forever. As I reflect Erik Erikson’s eighth stage on me, I suppose that the outcome can be positive: that I will take life as it is, face it well, take opportunities in hand, stay strong, live happy and at the end, look back to everything and feel as proud and prideful of everything that I had faced and everything that has happened to me.
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Aupont 22 Erik Erikson’s Eight Stage of Psychosocial Development: Hope and Faith vs. Despair. This is the ninth stage in Erik Erikson’s theory, as it elaborates on late eighties and beyond (36). In this stage, an individual can have in mind a question such as “Am I ready to go?”. According to Joan Erikson, as she creates this last stage, she observed her husband’s behavior, how he felt about his time coming up, rather it was filled with despair and resentment or hope (606-632). As I am not yet facing this stage, I would have a positive outcome, as I would want to patiently wait for my time to come and hope to be remembered for the good I displayed in myself and around others. I would hope to be remembered for my actions, my issues and how I have lived my life. I hope to be considered an example to someone that would have their chance to live their life and have the ability to live it to the fullest while he or she can. I would hope to pass away in peace and become a happy, unforgettable memory to those who were around me, to those I was friends with, loved and felt close with. An example of so would be my stepfather. He is fully resentful, never stops complaining, did nothing to help anyone, was selfish, self-centered and did not display joy with the family around him. This results in him being very arrogant as he claims to have lived a great life, while remembering many regrets and mistakes. This is a perfect example of how I would not want to be when I face this stage. Another example would be my great- grandmother, as she is still alive today, looks at herself and others with a lot of joy, she is never tired of motivating me when I come and see her; she gives me similar advice as my
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Aupont 23 grandmother and grandfather; to live life to the fullest because at any time it could end. She loves to spread positivity, loves to know about others and find a way to put someone into a great mood even after a dreadful day. This is an example of how I would love to be when I face this stage. A last example would be an old friend of mine, as I am confused about this
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