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3.As you’re walking to work…. Slowyour walk down to a crawl. Walk at around 1/4 of your normal speed. I’m talking SLOW… So slow that you’re barely moving. This will feel very weird at first, and you’ll be self-conscious. Force it anyway. Walk SLOWLY. (Remember, an alpha male is never in a hurry.)4.Look at the faces of the people who are coming towards you. Try to always see their face before they see your face. Your eyes should be looking straight ahead at all times. Whenever a person appears in your line of sight, look at their face.Examine it. Don’t be creepy. Just glance at their face for a solid 2-3 seconds then look past them.If it’s a woman, and she looks back at you, hold eye contact with her until she looks away. If she doesn’t look away, keep holding eye contact until she breaks it. VERY important rule of attraction: Never be the first to break eye contact with a woman. If you do this exercise right, you’ll notice that some women make eye contact with you and then look away, while other women will make eye contact and then continue looking into your eyes without looking awayThis is a “female approach”. Women almost never approach men directly — even men they’re attracted to. 20
Women are terrified of rejection (imagine your own fear of rejection then multiply it by 10. That’s how much women fear rejection). And they are socially conditioned to think that it’s the man’s role to initiate. Hence, a woman might really want to approach you, but her fear of seeming “un-feminine”, desperate, pathetic, etc, will hold her back.Yet women DO approach men they find attractive. They just do so in a more subtle, understated, “feminine” way. They use what I call the “approach invitation” — namely, staring into your eyes for 2 or more seconds without looking away. When a woman looks into your eyes without looking away for more than 2 seconds, this is her way of saying “you’re attractive, please approach me”. This is the single most common form of female approach — the “approach invitation” through extended eye contact. If you do the slow walk exercise EXACTLY as it’s laid out above (especially the first step), you’ll notice you get far more female interest and “approach invitations” than you ever had before. Don’t believe something so simple could work?Try it.It will change your life.===========================BUILDING THE ATTRACTIVE VIBE, PART 5: 21
BECOMING “UNSTIFLED” What is “stifling”? To be stifledis defined as: 1. to be unable to breathe properly; to suffocate.Example: “those in the streets were stifledby the fumes”2. to restrain a reaction or stop oneself acting on an emotion.Example: “she stifled a giggle” In the context of social dynamics, most people are “stifled” in the sense of feeling:•ill at ease•nervous•tense•self-conscious•inhibitedHave you ever gone to a nightclub and felt extremely nervous, self-conscious, and intimidated by the environment?