RECIPROCITY LOVE Which Are more romantic Men or women which one is it MEN ARE

Reciprocity love which are more romantic men or women

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* RECIPROCITY LOVE Which Are more romantic? Men or women? ---- which one is it? MEN ARE MORE ROMANTIC Women Relationship focus Emotionally expressive In touch with feelings tend their relationship Men Subscribe to romantic leaders Report falling in love QUICKLY Say I <3 YOU FIRST First sight love Marrying for Love Marriage has little to do with love 1967--78% of women, 35% of men 1991--9% of women, 14% of men in response to question: marrying someone who has all your characteristics you’re looking for but not in love with them. Everyone wants love these days as compared to before
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Americans are no long exclusive to thinking love as a requirement of marriage Majority of western and eastern nations value <3 Settling Is a problem with approach? There are different types of love Valid ways of loving Love changes over time Love means different things Sacrifice & Investment RUBIN 1970 Studied b/c around this time love had a more central role in relationships Used a survey to tap into what <3 means scale on <3 difficult to tap into all ways Sternberg 1986 Triangular theory of love 3 MAJOR THINGS Passion- Hot n Bothered, INFATUATION Intimacy- Closeness , LIKING Commitment- Decision, EMPTY LOVE Love partner involvement Work to maintain relationship Remain and person is ctd. to be rewarding to us MARRIAGE Components of Triangle Passion & Intimacy--Romantic Love Intimacy & Commitment-- Companionate Love Passion & Commitment-- Fatuous Love Passion, Intimacy, & Commitment-- Consumate Love (WINNN) None-- Non-Love Passionate Love v. Companionate Love · “I love you…but I’m not in love with you” · I love you is companionate, I love you as a person · In love with you, passionate love Passionate Love (or intense romantic love) · Put simply: passionate love has cognitive, emotional, and behavioral characteristics o Cognitive characteristics: § Intense focused attention § Obsessive thinking o Affective (emotional) characteristic:
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§ Euphoria: a feeling of intense happiness § Emotional dependency § Increased energy o Behavioral characteristics § Seeking proximity § Sexual bidding · Also: characterized by physiological arousal o Physiological responses attributed to partner · Belief the other is the cause of that arousal o The shaky bridge study Tuesday, Feb 7 2012 LOVE ctd. Love is characterized by affective behavioral cognitive aspects Passionate love [VIDEO] Dan in real life I love him, I LOVE YOU True love v. sexual attraction Best possible version of self YOU ARE A MURDERER OF LOVE ahah Cross-cultural understanding phenomena Underlying physiology?
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