WOMEN GETTING MARRIED
Toseftas: Contradict on whether a woman must get married.
Gemarah Sanhedrin- An unmarried women is an unfinished vessel.
When she gets married, she becomes a complete vessel/person.
Gemarah Yevamot- Women naturally want to get marrie
ERETZ YISRAEL VS CHUTZ LAARETZ
Rashi- Maybe the reason why they couldnt have children before was because
they were in chutz laaretz.
Ohr Zaruah- This 10 year law only applies in EY.
Ritva- Dont say that the time that you are in CL doesnt count. This was i
Mishnah seems to imply that once one fulfilled Peru URevu, they can stop having
children. Rabbi Yehoshua says If a man marries a woman when he is young, he
should marry a woman when he is old (mitzvah to remarry). He should have
children when he is
Yevamot- A man had a boy and a girl when he wasnt Jewish. Then he converts.
Did he fulfill PUR? Rav Yochanan: Yes. Because he has chidren Reish Lakish:
No. A convert is born again and is not halachically related to his children.
Pasuk from Mela
This was mostly discussed in a time when we didnt know who was responsible
for having the fertility issues. Also, we have more options nowadays.
Mishnah- A man does not fulfills PUR and his wife does not have children within
10 years and
Issur of Man to Rape His Wife- Anusah and the Aimah (Force and Fear)
Ran- Bnei Aimah is the fear the husband puts on his wife to have sex with him
when she doesnt want to. She only does it out of fear even if she says yes. Bnei
Anussah is worse and is mam