Consider the music most repulsive to you -- punk rock, opera, rap, polka, new
age, techno, whatever. Could you choose to like it? Could you not choose to play it but choose to genuinely appreciate it, like you do the music that is "your music"? Most would argue that you do not choose y our appreciation of music. What does your musical taste tell you about your cultural conditioning, about how you've been socialized? What choices are you capable of in this domain?